Do something everyday that scares you?
Good idea .. or not?

Today, together with Leanne Wickham, I hosted an event for a new community group called Novel Ideas. The event was attended by a 4 times New York best selling ghost writer, 4 published authors, 2 book printers, 3 book coaches and 3 aspiring writers - all together a brilliant bunch of creatives, making for a very fun and successful event!
If you've known me for longer than 4 years an event like this will be no big surprise. However 3.5 years ago I came down with Chronic Fatigue, and my world completely changed.
My ability to do 'extra' and burn the midnight oil disappeared, even normal household jobs became a struggle at times, along with debilitating pain to this day.
Mid-to-late last year I suddenly realised that with the focus on healing and inactivity, I'd become a bit shy and actually afraid of meeting new people - highly unusual for me - the former social butterfly.
Being a bit of a self help junkie I decided it was time to solve this 'problem'. I spent until Christmas meeting up with old friends who I hadn't seen in a while (sometimes years!) - this grew my confidence that people did still 'like me' and would make the time to meet up.
At the start of this year I organised a few coffee dates with inspiring creatives who I had connected with and followed on social media over the years - again fantastic to meet talented but still familiar people and share energy.
Finally today, an event with quite a few complete strangers, and me (half) in the lead ... and guess what? It was totally fine. Nervous at first, but I really enjoyed myself!
I loved meeting and chatting with everyone AND I walked away with buzzing, with more energy flow than I'd felt in over a year.
So next time you're feeling flat or low in energy - try doing something that scares you - I highly recommend it!
Margot Korhonen, an author and creative soul, published "Creating Connected Communities" in 2023, building on her 2009 children's book, "I Grow Vegetables." With over two decades of experience in the not-for-profit sector, she's a mural artist, designer, and marketing expert.
Margot's passion lies in connecting people to make a real difference. She advocates for collaboration between small businesses and communities to create positive change without added stress.
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